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The Missing Link to Manifesting

This is a technique—if you can call it that—that I have employed with great success that fixed my missing link to manifesting. I actually didn’t do it for the manifestation aspect; I did it because I was called to do so and discovered that a by-product of this amazing power is amazing manifestations. I believe it is because the act connects us with our destiny which ignites the real power behind the Law of Attraction.

What am I talking about?? Watch the video below and find out!

Without revealing my secret from the video, I can share an amazing manifestation of late that not only answered prayers but pointed me in the direction of my destiny with such force I could not ignore.

I had cleaned out my house and closet last year when the phenomenal The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo came out. I did as suggested and only kept what I absolutely loved. I didn’t like any of my clothes. Why did I own so much black? And drab? And boring?? My closet was absolutely bare as a result. I trusted that the vacuum created would be filled quickly and I looked forward to my new wardrobe. I had no idea how it was going to happen—I wasn’t going to go shopping for it, that’s for sure—but I knew it would happen.

Cut to months later, several seasons had come and gone and I was wondering where my new wardrobe went. Did it get lost in the Manifesting Mail?? I mean, really! I only had a couple of outfits with which I was making do… I resigned myself that I was going to have to do what I hated most: go shopping. Not just for an outfit or two but for a whole new wardrobe (groan).

No, a quiet voice inside assured me, Your wardrobe is coming.

Shortly after, a neighbor knocked on my door. They were cleaning out their house and had a bunch of clothes. Did I want them? They were mostly their teenage and young adult sons’ clothes, but if I needed t-shirts for rags… Yes! I exclaimed. I needed rags badly. I had a bunch of the microtouch… I don’t know what they’re called but I absolutely hate them and I have been trying to manifest some decent cotton rags for awhile.

I went and helped him bring the clothes back to our house and it was bags and bags and bags. I suddenly had a plethora of rags and a bunch of cool tees that fit. Funny stuff like The Many Expressions of Darth Vader where Darth Vader looks the same in all of them. They fit me surprisingly well and I wondered aloud if I shouldn’t be shopping in the boys section. I decided to do some alterations so that they would fit like snug tees when my other neighbor told me she was so overwhelmed with all of her stuff and she was trying to give away her bags and bags and bags of clothes to a non-profit that refused to come get them.

Do you want them?

Yes!

Forget the tees! My other neighbor is a clotheshorse it seems with the happiest and brightest wardrobe I have ever seen! Talk about manifesting.

I now have a clothes problem. Apparently, I have inherited my neighbor’s clothes horse problem (to my delight), but here is the strange part, my message from the universe: I am overrun with tops. A couple of pairs of pants here and there… This wardrobe would be perfect for someone who did video a lot… For someone who does video a lot??

I had started making videos a while ago. I mean, I have two film degrees and at some point I decided I ought to work in the format. I lamented my lack of tops when I started because it became quickly apparent that I would wear the same (drab) tops over and over again. Gee, I thought to myself, Wouldn’t it be nice to be overrun with tops…

I don’t know if it was my lack of wardrobe or something else (like a baby) that got me off track, but I suddenly heard God as if he was yelling in my ear.

Okay, okay! Message received!

Apparently, my missing link wants me on video. I have devoted a significant amount of my life to the study of the art form. I guess it is time to get started in earnest.

Till next time..

Hearts and Stars,
Tifany

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Feeling Change

Fear and Faith. Both are beliefs held about events that have not yet happened. Both are oriented in the future.

Fear is an important feeling that alerts us to potential problems. My goal is not to eliminate fear from my emotional repertoire as I believe that all emotions are important in the range of human experience. Instead my goal is to utilize the energy contained within the emotion and transmute that into positivity.

We need all emotions at varying times throughout our life—the “good” and the “bad” ones, strong feelings and milder ones. Imagine a world where sadness did not exist and loss was never experience: Isn’t grief the evidence of strong love? All of our emotions are tied together and important to our experience.

Fear is important to be experienced to understand our frailty as human beings—we feel this and we do not take unnecessary risk. But what about when fear is ingrained so that it becomes a block to living our life to the fullest? Perhaps we obsessively transfix on small details, holding us back from making bigger strides towards loftier goals.

A lot of unnecessary fear stems from culturally ingrained problems—we allow our appearance, lack of resources, or insecurity to hold us back from taking risks that could enrich our life because of a perceived notion that we are not good enough. In reality, none of these things matter, a fact that has been proven again and again by people who have proved the world wrong and achieved greatly from unexpected and unprecedented places. I have come to the conclusion that if the world says to do something, that is information that can be thrown away without hesitation.

And where Fear is the paralysis of movement or a fleeing from that which is fearful, Faith is the overwhelming belief that our desired result will materialize, regardless of the circumstances that surround us. Faith provides comfort in present circumstances and an easiness in moving forward. In fact, the most faithful among us look like crazed lunatics as they fiercely hold onto faith in the face of traumatic surroundings, regardless of the faith to which they espouse.

I have often heard it said that Faith is fantastical thinking, and—right before death—the faithful realize that the life they have lived is a lie. I don’t know about you, but this sounds a lot like the mental tape of someone who is firmly attached to doubt. How would they know what happens, or if it happens at all?

I have decided that a lifetime of faith feels better whether or not I ever achieve that which I pray faithfully for—whether it is to live an eternity in heaven or to hold faithfully to my dreams, whatever they may be. Doesn’t this feel better than a lifetime of fear and doubt? What does the person achieve who never believed at the end of their life? The egotistical self-satisfaction of being right?

Faith feels better.

And the truth is that the faithful are blessed with crazy, ridiculous miracles. Yes, miracles! Miracles happen to the faithful and I have seen it so many times in my own life, in the lives of my family and friends, and over and over in the lives of people who are students of their thoughts.

The problem is: how do we get from the one side to the other? How do we go from living our life in fear to living our life in faith?

We traverse the bridge that takes us from fear to faith. Called The Bridge of Faith, it is a spiritual journey takes us from one landscape to a drastically different one emotionally. How do you cross that bridge?

It can happen right now. In this moment. By being present and deciding that it is so. Then Faith rains down its blessings from Heaven like the water drops on the face in a storm.

For every fear, replace with faith. Make a listThe voice speaks for the body (this is why you have to say affirmations out loud), the image of faith you hold in your mind, the mood you choose to cling to for your emotion, and a public statement for your spirit—perhaps words of kindness in one of your relationships. Use the entire arsenal that is at your disposal. In fact, combining techniques is the most effective to feel faith and subsequently work across layers of existence.

The paralysis of fear not only grips our mind, but it greatly affects our relationships. In fact, all of our emotions are woven together with each other, interconnected in the tapestries of our family, networks, and larger world.

An example: I swear my daughter can read my mind sometimes. This baffled me at first when she was first born. I might have been scared but not for the naturalness that comes with the mama and baby relationship. But there is no reason to contemplate fear for the explanation is simple: she reads my emotions which are tied to my thoughts.

Do thoughts trigger emotion? Or does the emotion precipitate the thought?

This is the revelation: as we do not exist in a vacuum, neither do our thoughts. Our energy is echoing out across dimensions in fractal waves. We can channel this energy at any time for our better intentions. Our higher purpose. The bigger dream.

It takes practice to move from living largely in a fearful or doubting mindset to believing that you can achieve your wildest dreams. The change must be replicated across the layers of existence.

Dream wildly: the bigger the dream, the farther you have to reach, the higher you can climb. So don’t practice on little stuff—I mean, practice always—but reach out of your comfort zone and dream big as the the bigger the dream, the more miraculous the outcome, the farther we reach out of our mundanity. The bigger we dream, the easier it becomes to believe in the miraculous.

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To delve into the topic with more depth, I am excited to share an upcoming opportunity to join our FREE webinar workshop, Vision Book, A Life Design Workshop. This workshop will use this worksheet or your favorite pen and paper. So much of manifestation study is centered around the self. I have found that it is our relationships and networks that contain our real magic and power. We are going to be strengthening these manifestation muscles in the workshop, so bring an intention or goal and join us. Message me or visit the registration page here. (Workshop is also safe for introverts.)


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